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be torn between — to be unable to decide between two choices or options

Part of speech: NOUN

Definition: to be unable to decide between two choices or options

Pronunciation (IPA): /bi tɔːrn bɪˈtwiːn/

Example Sentences

  • I'm torn between ordering pizza and pretending to be healthy with a salad.
  • He was torn between his dream job in Paris and his fear of French pronunciation.
  • Students are often torn between studying hard and maintaining their social life.

be torn between

NOUN

[/bi tɔːrn bɪˈtwiːn/]

to be unable to decide between two choices or options

She is torn between two job offers, frozen with both letters in her hands.
💡 Concept

She is torn between two job offers, frozen with both letters in her hands.

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🎤Pronunciation

🇺🇸 US/bi tɔːrn bɪˈtwiːn/
🇬🇧 UK/biː tɔːn bɪˈtwiːn/

🌳Etymology

Roottorn

Origin

The phrase derives from Old English 'teran' (to tear, rend), with 'torn' being the past participle. The metaphorical sense of emotional conflict emerged by the 16th century, using the physical image of being pulled in opposite directions to describe internal indecision or competing loyalties.

Breakdown

be (auxiliary verb indicating state) + torn (past participle of tear, meaning pulled apart or divided) + between (preposition indicating two opposing positions or choices).

🎵Rhyme

born
worn
corn

🔗Collocations

be torn between two options
torn between love and duty
torn between staying and leaving
feel torn between
emotionally torn
torn between conflicting desires

📝Examples

😄 Fun example

“I'm torn between ordering pizza and pretending to be healthy with a salad.”

😄 Fun example

“He was torn between his dream job in Paris and his fear of French pronunciation.”

“Students are often torn between studying hard and maintaining their social life.”

“The CEO was torn between expanding globally and focusing on domestic markets.”

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