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hurt one's feelingsto upset someone emotionally; to make someone feel sad, offended, or disappointed

Part of speech: NOUN

Definition: to upset someone emotionally; to make someone feel sad, offended, or disappointed

Pronunciation (IPA): /hɜːrt wʌnz ˈfiːlɪŋz/

Example Sentences

  • My mom's cooking critique really hurt my feelings, especially since I spent three hours making dinner.
  • He tends to hurt people's feelings without realizing it because he's too blunt.
  • I was worried about hurting her feelings, so I told a white lie about liking her new haircut.

hurt one's feelings

NOUN

[/hɜːrt wʌnz ˈfiːlɪŋz/]

to upset someone emotionally; to make someone feel sad, offended, or disappointed

His careless joke really hurt her feelings at the dinner table.
💡 Concept

His careless joke really hurt her feelings at the dinner table.

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🎤Pronunciation

🇺🇸 US/hɜːrt wʌnz ˈfiːlɪŋz/
🇬🇧 UK/hɜːt wʌnz ˈfiːlɪŋz/

🌳Etymology

Origin

Hurt derives from Old French hurter meaning 'to collide or strike,' while feeling originates from Old English felan meaning 'to touch or perceive.' The phrase emerged as the physical sense of collision metaphorically extended to emotional injury, creating the idiomatic expression for causing emotional distress.

Breakdown

hurt (to cause pain, from Old French hurter: to strike) + one's (possessive pronoun indicating the subject) + feelings (emotional states, from Old English felan: to touch/sense). The compound phrase combines physical damage imagery with emotional perception.

🎵Rhyme

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🔗Collocations

deeply hurt someone's feelings
hurt someone's feelings badly
avoid hurting feelings
unintentionally hurt feelings
hurt someone's feelings with words
be afraid of hurting feelings

📝Examples

😄 Fun example

My mom's cooking critique really hurt my feelings, especially since I spent three hours making dinner.

He tends to hurt people's feelings without realizing it because he's too blunt.

😄 Fun example

I was worried about hurting her feelings, so I told a white lie about liking her new haircut.

📚Related Words

Synonyms

offendupsetwound emotionallypaindistress

Antonyms

comfortconsolepleasedelight

Related

sensitiveemotionalfeelingsempathyconsideration

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