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sit on the fenceto avoid making a decision or taking sides in a dispute; to remain neutral

Part of speech: NOUN

Definition: to avoid making a decision or taking sides in a dispute; to remain neutral

Pronunciation (IPA): /sɪt ɑːn ðə fens/

Example Sentences

  • My friend always sits on the fence when we're choosing a restaurant - it drives me crazy!
  • The CEO can't sit on the fence about layoffs any longer - employees need to know.
  • Stop sitting on the fence about your major - graduation is next year!

sit on the fence

NOUN

[/sɪt ɑːn ðə fens/]

to avoid making a decision or taking sides in a dispute; to remain neutral

to avoid making a decision or taking sides in a dispute; to remain neutral
💡 Concept

to avoid making a decision or taking sides in a dispute; to remain neutral

Sitting tense on the fence, trying to make sense
🎵 Rhyme

Sitting tense on the fence, trying to make sense

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🎤Pronunciation

🇺🇸 US/sɪt ɑːn ðə fens/
🇬🇧 UK/sɪt ɒn ðə fens/

🌳Etymology

Origin

This phrase originated in 19th-century American English from the literal image of sitting atop a fence, from which one can see both sides of land but place one's feet on neither. It metaphorically describes the position of remaining neutral or uncommitted between two opposing sides or options.

Breakdown

sit (to be seated) + on (positioned above) + the (definite article) + fence (barrier dividing two areas). The fence symbolizes a boundary between two opposing positions, while sitting upon it represents a state of indecision or neutrality rather than commitment to either side.

🎵Rhyme

fencesensetensedense
fence
sense
tense
dense

🔗Collocations

sit on the fence about
stop sitting on the fence
can't sit on the fence forever
accused of sitting on the fence
refuse to sit on the fence

📝Examples

😄 Fun example

My friend always sits on the fence when we're choosing a restaurant - it drives me crazy!

The CEO can't sit on the fence about layoffs any longer - employees need to know.

Stop sitting on the fence about your major - graduation is next year!

😄 Fun example

He's been sitting on the fence about proposing for three years - she might leave him!

📚Related Words

Synonyms

be undecidedbe indecisivewaverhesitateremain neutral

Antonyms

take a standmake a decisionchoose sides

Related

procrastinatedelaypostponeneutralundecided

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